I love being a mum but I don’t want to just be “mum”. There are some women who feel that their life mission is to be a mum. They dream of it and their hearts ache for it. That wasn’t me. If I am completely honest there was a time when I didn’t want to have children. Motherhood wasn’t for me. I wasn’t really the maternal type and after helping my mum bring up my siblings I thought I was done. And, then I met my husband. I’d had lots of conversations with family and friends in the past and they used to tell me “when you meet the right man, that will all change” and so it did.
DOCTORS TOLD ME I WAS INFERTILE….
Ironically, four years into our relationship we discovered that I had Endometriosis. The doctors told me I was infertile and our chance of conceiving was approximately two percent. We were devastated and that is when I truly knew I wanted to be a mum. Luckily, it was meant to be and we have been blessed with two children both of which we conceived naturally and both of which I carried. [Read more…]